Let Us Not Harbour Thoughts Of...

Subject: "The Face of Love" sent you a message on Facebook...

Nick Ralls sent a message to the members of The Face of Love.

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Subject: LET US NOT HARBOUR THOUGHTS OF ISOLATION

Affirmation for Monday December 28th

I choose to communicate and relate with others in an enthusiastic way.... I seek to join, to move beyond limitation and not to harbour thoughts that people do not want me or are avoiding my communication.

EACH of us has the ability to choose the quality of how we relate, how we communicate and how we connect.

We are at choice. We can put more energy into how we talk to people, how we relate to people through looking, hearing and touching.

We can enthuse. Those who are enthusiastic about how they communicate are contagious.

They bring back an enthusiastic reaction from others. And people like to have them around.

So many of us complain... complain of poor relationships, not being understood, not being appreciated, not being heard, not being held.

But so often the way we are treated is the way we look upon and treat ourselves.

When we doubt our own loveability we draw an energy of desperation around ourselves... an energy of lack... an energy of undesirability which is the very opposite of our intention.

The more attention we give to isolation, to separation, to disconnection then the more we will bring this into our reality.

The universe will hear our cry... it will hear our cry that we are alone, not worthy of good relationships and return to us that reality.

But when we see ourselves as lovable, look at ourselves in the mirror and like what we see.. then we put out a different message.

Armed with this energy we might change the way we communicate and the way we relate.

We might start talking with people... picking up the phone... sending the text message which will open the door to communication...writing the letter.

And as we pour attention onto others, we then avail ourselves of the opportunity to be noticed, to be wanted, to be invited.

When we wait for the telephone to ring or someone to knock on the door we will not bring forth our enthusiasm for connection.

And the more enthusiasm we pour into the outside world that we deserve meaningful and loving connection then the more we will attract this same energy into our life.

It can happen in no other way.

The moment we harbour a thought that we are isolated or alone, it is time to change that thought.

It is time to focus instead on our connection to all and to turn our attention to all those in our life who adore our presence in the world.

The sad truth is that too many of us focus on the person who will not return or reciprocate our love or the attention we bestow on them.

The sad truth is that we focus on those who are on a different path, those who are on a different energy level or those who simply are too afraid to embark on a journey with us.

Instead we need to focus on those who will join us on our journey.

We need to focus on all those who would really appreciate our telephone call or our knock on the door.

We need to focus on how desirable and just how socially wonderful we are.

When we feel separated or isolated it is normally a concept that has formed within our head.

It is negative thought and one that can be changed.

When the thought is changed we can now see that we do not have dozens and dozens of people in our life who are clambering to avoid us... that we are not untouchable or undesirable...

It is more often a case that we simply have not joined.

It is more often a case that we have not responded to the invitations of those who want us in their lives because we have been too busy focusing on those who have been apathetic or have not responded to our attention.

It is more often a case that we have held back from communication for fear that we might not be wanted or might be pushing ourselves forward.

Now we have to expand our consciousness to being one among many.. being able to reach out to many... to be able to add new friends to our social circle...

We have to let go of limitation.

We have to stop hanging onto the few or the one who has distanced themselves from us or is too busy for us.

We have to realise that there is a huge number of people just wanting to connect with us... to join our friendship circle... and it might be time to stop putting all our attention the door that has closed and turning our spotlight to shine on the doors that are opening.

So dear and beautiful friend... do open your heart and share what is going on for you on this subject or any subject

I love you

Nick
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