Subject: "The Face of Love" sent you a message on Facebook...
Nick Ralls sent a message to the members of The Face of Love.
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Subject: WE ALL BELONG TO THE SAME CLUB
Affirmation for Monday January 4th
I belong and join in with life... I know that I have as much right as anyone else to shine my light, to express myself for who I am and to be present. It does not serve me or others when I isolate myself or withdraw or even feel I do not belong. Each of us belongs!
EACH of us is a member of the human race.
We have as much right as anyone else to be on this earth... and as much right as anyone else to shine our light and express ourselves.
So often we isolate ourselves... withdraw from others... do not join in.
Sometimes we blame it on others who might not have invited us, might not wish to include us or set themselves apart.
But for the most part when we find ourselves out on a limb it is because we have made the choice to cut ourselves off.
It is important if we are to really love ourselves and others that we feel we belong.
In our heart we need to feel our oneness.
We need to go into that place that exists inside of us which connects us with every other living person and, indeed, being.
We need to have that feeling of being included.. that feeling of being part of.. that feeling that we belong.
Because when we hold that feeling... become that feeling.. we draw into our lives those people who will include us and not exclude us, those experiences which allow us to belong and join in.
It can become a difficult pattern to break.
But we need to push ourselves forward, go out and meet people, communicate and express.
If we feel lonely and without friends or a significant other, it will not serve us to stay indoors all the time.... within our own four walls even at some level it might appear safe to do so.
We need to get out there and meet people.
Our fear is often that of rejection... of not being liked... not being accepted.. and not being wanted.
But if we feel other people are not liking us, are rejecting us or not accepting us it is usually the case that we are not liking ourselves, rejecting ourselves and not accepting ourselves also.
So we fear and see this reflected back to us.
When we come to love and accept ourselves then we also realise that no one has power to reject us but ourselves.
OK ... some people will be more friendly than others.
But there are millions and millions of people in this planet and there are plenty of friendly faces who will accept and welcome us into their lives.
So often we might focus on the unfriendly or even hostile person so much that we do not let the friendly ones in.
In fact, if we have a low opinion of ourselves we might well give undue attention to those who also have a low opinion of themselves and of other people in the process.
But when we have a high opinion of ourselves we then gravitate towards those who also feel good and because they feel good they will also want someone like us who feels good to join them on the journey.
Who would you like to be your vacation or holiday companion?
Do you want somebody unhappy, reserved, unsure, hostile or aggressive?
Or do you choose someone who appears happy within their own skin, friendly, interested in you, gentle and kind?
The choice is obvious.
And so it is on the journey through life.
People will relish to have in their lives those who possess all the qualities of the good companion.
And if they don't know about you it is because you have kept your light hidden under the proverbial bushel... that you have not joined up... that you have not allowed your expression to enable you to shine as the lit up person you truly are.
So let us all be joiners.
Let us accept we are members of the club... the human race.
And as such we have a right to attend... we deserve to be present.. to communicate.. to mingle... and to connect.
Each of us belongs!
So dear and beautiful friend... do open your heart and share what is going on for you on this subject or any subject
I love you
Nick
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http://intentionalone.com/powersoflove.html
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http://livingonlove.ning.com/group/thefaceoflove
Nick Ralls sent a message to the members of The Face of Love.
--------------------
Subject: WE ALL BELONG TO THE SAME CLUB
Affirmation for Monday January 4th
I belong and join in with life... I know that I have as much right as anyone else to shine my light, to express myself for who I am and to be present. It does not serve me or others when I isolate myself or withdraw or even feel I do not belong. Each of us belongs!
EACH of us is a member of the human race.
We have as much right as anyone else to be on this earth... and as much right as anyone else to shine our light and express ourselves.
So often we isolate ourselves... withdraw from others... do not join in.
Sometimes we blame it on others who might not have invited us, might not wish to include us or set themselves apart.
But for the most part when we find ourselves out on a limb it is because we have made the choice to cut ourselves off.
It is important if we are to really love ourselves and others that we feel we belong.
In our heart we need to feel our oneness.
We need to go into that place that exists inside of us which connects us with every other living person and, indeed, being.
We need to have that feeling of being included.. that feeling of being part of.. that feeling that we belong.
Because when we hold that feeling... become that feeling.. we draw into our lives those people who will include us and not exclude us, those experiences which allow us to belong and join in.
It can become a difficult pattern to break.
But we need to push ourselves forward, go out and meet people, communicate and express.
If we feel lonely and without friends or a significant other, it will not serve us to stay indoors all the time.... within our own four walls even at some level it might appear safe to do so.
We need to get out there and meet people.
Our fear is often that of rejection... of not being liked... not being accepted.. and not being wanted.
But if we feel other people are not liking us, are rejecting us or not accepting us it is usually the case that we are not liking ourselves, rejecting ourselves and not accepting ourselves also.
So we fear and see this reflected back to us.
When we come to love and accept ourselves then we also realise that no one has power to reject us but ourselves.
OK ... some people will be more friendly than others.
But there are millions and millions of people in this planet and there are plenty of friendly faces who will accept and welcome us into their lives.
So often we might focus on the unfriendly or even hostile person so much that we do not let the friendly ones in.
In fact, if we have a low opinion of ourselves we might well give undue attention to those who also have a low opinion of themselves and of other people in the process.
But when we have a high opinion of ourselves we then gravitate towards those who also feel good and because they feel good they will also want someone like us who feels good to join them on the journey.
Who would you like to be your vacation or holiday companion?
Do you want somebody unhappy, reserved, unsure, hostile or aggressive?
Or do you choose someone who appears happy within their own skin, friendly, interested in you, gentle and kind?
The choice is obvious.
And so it is on the journey through life.
People will relish to have in their lives those who possess all the qualities of the good companion.
And if they don't know about you it is because you have kept your light hidden under the proverbial bushel... that you have not joined up... that you have not allowed your expression to enable you to shine as the lit up person you truly are.
So let us all be joiners.
Let us accept we are members of the club... the human race.
And as such we have a right to attend... we deserve to be present.. to communicate.. to mingle... and to connect.
Each of us belongs!
So dear and beautiful friend... do open your heart and share what is going on for you on this subject or any subject
I love you
Nick
--------------------
http://intentionalone.com/powersoflove.html
___
http://livingonlove.ning.com/group/thefaceoflove
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